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  "map_content": "The template of a divine union can only come forward once each individual has united the trinity within themselves. \r\nWhen we think of it in mathematical terms, it's 1+1=3 the three is the inner child. It's creation. \r\nIt's the polarities uniting.\r\nNow I'm not saying that people entering into these unions are fully healed, and have 0 issues. That would be ridiculous to claim. However, they have both done the work necessary to be able to express authentically themselves, and each others needs, requirements and boundaries. \r\nThey are able to see their own patterns, behaviours and traumas and address them in a loving manner, in a constructive way, in an unconditionally loving way, in a respectful way. \r\nThere is no need for swearing, shaming, blaming or raised voices. Of course, conversations may get heated as one of the biggest challenges a human being has is their emotional regulation. It's something I have been tested on deeply over the last 4 years... And I mean deeply! \r\nHow can one regulate themselves no matter what... Emotional regulation is everything. Are you able to love each other without cussing, shaming, blaming or being petty. Can you raise something that's made you feel uncomfortable in a loving way, or do you get personal and attack. Regulation is so important, and unfortunately most human beings lack it. \r\nA union isn't perfect, but it's about two souls coming together and agreeing to work on themselves as individuals and as a partnership. It's having a shared vision, a shared idea, and one for the collective that doesn't just involve themselves, but the world itself, and the betterment of it. \r\nThe feminist movement isn't the way, nor is patriarchy from men. We have men blaming women, and women blaming men. The truth is both parties have self-reflection to do. \r\nYou can't group all men and women into categories and say they're all the same. If you're still holding grudges, resentment, anger or frustration about the opposite sex, then you haven't understood why your experiences have happened and your part you played in them... Be it, conscious or unconscious.\r\nIt's our job to transmute our pain, our unpleasant experiences and our trauma and use it for the betterment of ourselves and others. Taking accountability, responsibility and acknowledgement for our actions, in or out of the situation. We have a choice, whether that to choose forgiveness, detachment or to use our pain as a catalyst for the bigger picture. \r\nThe real dis-ease is infanthood, and most adults have it. It's unresolved trauma and projections. It is everywhere! \r\nNow Men are logical and mental, women are spiritual and emotional. Men provide the container for a woman, the woman fills that container.\r\nThey do not think the same, they don't act the same. They are opposing energies. Women are maternal in nature, men are protective in nature. What comes naturally to a man doesn't a woman, and vise versa. A man has a 24 hour cycle, a woman has a 28 day cycle. Women are the internal, men the external. \r\nWe are not the same. \r\nWhen there is awareness of what each role is playing, and what comes naturally to each role. The masculine and feminine lead, but in their own way. \r\nThe original blueprint has been dismantled, reformed and manipulated. There is absolutely nothing wrong with a women cooking a meal for a man, being the caregiver or wanting to nurture him. There's nothing wrong with a man being driven, focused and directive. \r\nWhen balanced, these energies work in pure harmony with each other, as they feel fulfilled. \r\nWhen two beings come into a union it triggers those who aren't willing to face their own shadows. It acts as a repellant for those seeking to hide behind a mask, not willing to face their own real-alities, or those they have fabricated. \r\nAnd you know what the absolute catalyst is for true union. \r\nAuthenticity. \r\nPeople can't stand it when people are real, when they can self-reflect, self-analyse and admit when they are wrong. Not only this, but when they can do it in love. Without reactivity. \r\nThe difference with a conscious union is the space and love that is held for growth. When both individuals can sit in love, when the container is there to safely express themselves, and the unconditional love is there to be felt in its purist form.\r\nWhen these two people come together, the external drama quickly intensifies. People come out of the wood work from everywhere, even people you'd have called friends can quickly become enemies. Jealousy, envy, anger and resentment arise in others - unconsciously as they aren't able to admit that the feelings are actually coming forward because of their own belief systems around the opposing sex, or the relationship in itself. \r\nYou will hear name calling, bullying and people's opinion being thrown at you without asking. You'll have people involving themselves in your relationship, the opposing sex try causing issues by openly flirting, messaging or trying to cause drama. \r\nBut each thing they overcome only strengthens their bond... Because when you feel what is real, and you know the truth. The truth is all there is, and anything that isn't truth simply falls away. \r\nA union always starts with self. It isn't found in another, it's the concentration of mind, body and spirit. \r\nYou will meet the mirror you are reflecting, whether that is consciously or unconsciously. All relationships in your life are reflections of your own vibration, and your inner workings. \r\nThe path of growth isn't easy, or quick. When one relationship ends, the most important thing you can do is self-reflect. What part did I play in this, what could I have done to impact this, how did I contribute to this... \r\nInstead of... They cheated, they're a scumbag, it's on them, they manipulated me, they did this, they did that. \r\nAll served as important lessons, and all is experience. All is inviting you to look deeper within. So instead of blaming, drowning your sorrows, craving external attention and validation. Channel that energy into self-development and expression. Inspire others, move others, and work on yourself. \r\nNo relationship is a failure, no relationship is a waste of time. \r\nI'm grateful for all my past relationships, the pain, the pleasure and the endings and beginnings... As they've all brought me to this point. Meeting someone who is so aligned, shows up everytime, holds space, listens, helps, integrates and co-creates with me. Who has shown me a love like never before.\r\nBut to know love, is to be love. If you don't love yourself, how can you accept love from anyone else?\r\nIf you don't feel worthy of it, someone will show you how unworthy you are.\r\nIf you are needy, someone will come along and control you, or use that against you.\r\nI once looked for a saviour, I was a woman, but not energetically operating as one. I needed a man to protect me, to guide me, and to heal me from my own trauma. I was guided with patience and understanding, and eventually I realised I no longer needed saving. I no longer resonated with that label, that construct. I realised my own inner masculine, and I connected with that.\r\nHeal and find your inner trinity... And then you will meet yours like Neo did.",
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