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  "map_content": "Accountability is understanding that you are reaping what you have sown, therefore if you do more you will get more, if you do different you'll get different.\r\nBlame is pointing at a problem and expecting the problem to solve itself or be solved by another, it can only create a victim mentality which produces more blame and therefore stagnation.\r\nThe system isn't broken, it works perfectly for the ones who create the rules and control the resources. Therefore, if you want something better than what society offers you, then you must find a way to create the life you want to live outside of this system or at least a life that coexists with it.\r\nYou must plant the seeds of what you want to see grown in this garden of life.\r\nA lot of people have experienced abuse which creates a victim mindset that doesn't allow the individual to grow past the abuse they have endured. They may not have been responsible for the abuse, depending on the situation (like child abuse) but as grown adults they are responsible for healing themselves from it and not allowing it to continue by becoming better people, choosing better partners and making better friends. Accountability shifts the power back into your hands and allows room for growth instead of stagnation.\r\nThe mind is very powerful and is capable of painting memories in a different light, like when you're trying to get to sleep and the mind is showing you memories of your past but in a different way, like what if this happened like this instead of that. It's also capable of imagining new futures like what if you end up like this or that. Usually it likes to paint the past and future in worse circumstances, in most cases thinking of things about your past is depression and the future is anxiety but you can control the mind. Therefore, you can change the memories of the past and dreams of the future yourself, but make them better instead of worse. I'm not suggesting that you forget about the abuse but instead change the way it makes you feel. Forgive yourself for not being old enough to know, aware enough to notice toxic traits, strong enough to say no etc. Try and find a way to allow growth and healing instead of repeating counterproductive (non serving) cycles. I'm still learning all this myself and still find myself feeding negative thoughts patterns, however since meeting Emily and listening to her way of rewiring the mind and manifesting the future I want, I have grown in many ways that I believed to be impossible.",
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